About The Weekly Wench
Welcome to The Weekly Wench—this isn’t just a blog, it’s a ministry, a lifestyle, a love letter to every woman who’s done shrinking.
This space exists for the ones who were told to stay quiet, play small, or settle—and yet still chose to rise. I created it for the women who may not be ready to buy a ticket to the tour, afford a session, or even grab the book—but who still deserve access to the kind of wisdom that heals, liberates, and builds legacy.
Every post is written like a sermon: truth-telling, soul-stirring, strategy-laced. This is the real work—the kind that feeds, not teases. Here you’ll find stories, reflections, and hard-won strategems on reclaiming your voice, breaking generational patterns, preparing for your next level, and building a life that feels like freedom.
This is for my mother, my grandmother, and every woman who came before me with fire in her bones but nowhere to put it. It’s for the ones who exist alongside me, navigating and negotiating what it means to leverage the lives we have to get the lives we want. And it’s for the ones coming after me, so they can have the language, tools, and evidence that it’s possible.
This is more than a blog—it’s culture, it’s strategems, it’s a place to feel seen, and it’s where we shift our mindsets. And we’re not shrinking anymore.
Come get this word.
The Work Before the Work: Preparing for Your Next Level
You keep praying for the opportunity. But are you preparing for the version of you that’s supposed to receive it?
Walking in the Impossible—Turning What They Said Couldn’t Happen Into Reality
When the impossible finally happens—when the door opens and the opportunity lands in your lap—success doesn’t always feel like relief. Sometimes it feels like fear. This post reveals why we hesitate when our breakthrough arrives, and how to walk through the door with confidence, courage, and the version of you who knows she belongs.
The Real Reason You Feel “At Capacity” (And Why It’s a Lie)
Many women aren’t actually “at capacity.” They’re just carrying things that were never theirs to hold. Guilt. Expectations. Old stories. The moment you return what doesn’t belong to you,
your capacity expands — instantly.
Why You’re Afraid of Success—And How to Finally Let Yourself Have It
Many high-achieving women are afraid to fully receive the success they’ve worked for. Learn why survival mode, trauma, and guilt make arrival feel unsafe—and how to finally step into abundance, pleasure, and fulfillment without apology.
The Dream Audit—If It Doesn’t Scare You, It’s Too Small
Dream bigger. If your goals feel safe, they’re too small. Learn how to expand your vision, challenge inherited limits, and give yourself permission to want more.
The Limits You Inherited—And Why They’re Not Yours to Keep
A powerful guide to breaking generational limits and rewriting inherited beliefs about success, money, motherhood, and possibility. You weren’t meant to shrink.
What They Told You Was Impossible (And Why They Lied)
A powerful guide for women defying limitations placed on them by family, society, and fear. Learn why the odds don’t define you—and how to dream bigger.
The Impossible Possibilities Series: A 14-Week Journey to Redefining What’s Possible
You were never meant to live inside other people’s limits. This 14-week series shows you how to break them, build bigger, and become the blueprint your lineage has been waiting for.
How to Stop Faking It & Start Facing It: Your Infamous Step-By-Step Guide
Authenticity for women isn’t about perfection—it’s about truth. This Infamous Mothers guide walks you through how to stop performing and start facing what’s real, with clarity, courage, and Becoming.
Speaking of Faking…When It Comes to Our Pleasure, Yeah, No, We Don’t Fake That
Women have been conditioned to fake pleasure—in sex, relationships, work, and even motherhood. This guide explores the infamous way: choosing truth, alignment, and whole satisfaction over performance.
Building a Real Mothering Practice — Not a Performance
Most of us were taught to perform motherhood, not live it. This Infamous Mothering guide shows you how to stop performing and start building a mothering practice that includes you, sustains you, and frees you.
We Don’t Fake It ’Til We Make It — We Make It ’Til We Make It
This post is an invitation to step out of performance and into authenticity. “Fake it ’til you make it” teaches us to hide, posture, and perfect — but real confidence comes from truth, practice, and growth. Here, we explore why pretending disconnects us from our Becoming, how performance feeds imposter syndrome, and how the IMverse teaches a different path: Make It Real. A must-read for any woman learning to trust her process, honor her identity, and take up space without apology.
Girl, Stop Hiding Behind Your Accomplishments and Start Realizing You're Enough
A lot of high-achieving women lead with their accomplishments because they’re terrified of being seen without them. But no amount of success can heal what you haven’t faced. This week’s lesson in the Without Apology series invites you to take off the mask, stop hiding behind your résumé, and realize you were enough long before the accolades.
Are You Leading for Real — or Just Playing the Role?
Too many powerful women are performing leadership instead of living it. We’re managing teams, families, and visions—but somewhere along the way, we start playing the role instead of owning the rhythm. This week’s post is your reminder to stop performing, start leading for real, and align your mission, money, and truth—without apology.
No More “Little Ol’ Me”: The Infamous Woman’s Guide to Killing Imposter Syndrome
We’ve all done it—shrunk ourselves right after doing something big. But that ends here. This week, we’re killing imposter syndrome and reclaiming our shine—without apology.
Sis, No Shade But…Aren’t You Tired of Being A High-Functioning Fraud
We perform strength so well that people believe we don’t need help. And sometimes, we believe it too. But Baldwin was right: perfection is counterfeit. The shift isn’t about pretending less—it’s about living more. Here’s how to stop performing and start leading from truth.
This Ain’t Even My Signature: Reclaiming the Real Me
What happens when people stamp your name onto a story, role, or belief you never agreed to? This post explores identity forgery, the weight of unwanted roles, and the powerful choice to reclaim your name and live unapologetically.
Tuh. I’ve Got Questions: What’s the Fire, What’s the Hammer, Who’s Swinging It?
Ever feel like life keeps striking you in the same spot? You’re not crazy. You’re in the forge. The fire will always come, the hammer will always swing—but the real power is knowing what’s shaping you and who’s holding the tool. Here’s how to protect your blueprint when the heat is on.
When Resilience Goes Wrong – Built or Burnt by the Fire of Life
Resilience is supposed to refine us, but sometimes it warps us. The fire that was meant to make us stronger can leave burns, scars, and distortions. In this post, we ask the hard questions: Were you built or just burned? And how do you repair, recover, and reclaim the parts of yourself that the fire tried to erase?
Forged or Forged? Sis, Let’s Talk About the Fake Us
Many of us are carrying two versions of ourselves—one refined by fire and one rewritten without our consent. This post unpacks how to spot the difference and burn away the false version so you can live unapologetically.
