About The Weekly Wench
Welcome to The Weekly Wench—this isn’t just a blog, it’s a ministry, a lifestyle, a love letter to every woman who’s done shrinking.
This space exists for the ones who were told to stay quiet, play small, or settle—and yet still chose to rise. I created it for the women who may not be ready to buy a ticket to the tour, afford a session, or even grab the book—but who still deserve access to the kind of wisdom that heals, liberates, and builds legacy.
Every post is written like a sermon: truth-telling, soul-stirring, strategy-laced. This is the real work—the kind that feeds, not teases. Here you’ll find stories, reflections, and hard-won strategems on reclaiming your voice, breaking generational patterns, preparing for your next level, and building a life that feels like freedom.
This is for my mother, my grandmother, and every woman who came before me with fire in her bones but nowhere to put it. It’s for the ones who exist alongside me, navigating and negotiating what it means to leverage the lives we have to get the lives we want. And it’s for the ones coming after me, so they can have the language, tools, and evidence that it’s possible.
This is more than a blog—it’s culture, it’s strategems, it’s a place to feel seen, and it’s where we shift our mindsets. And we’re not shrinking anymore.
Come get this word.
Rest Is a Love Language: How Am I Not on My Own List?
Raven Davenport can create space in her Chicago studio, but she cannot create more hours in her day. When work, motherhood, and money leave her off her own list, her story opens a practical coaching session on support, priorities, and making room for rest without pretending your responsibilities disappear.
Everybody Gets a Yes… Except You?
Somebody else gets the comfort of your agreement, and you get to live with the consequences. This week, we’re practicing how to pause, check the cost, and give an answer we can honor.
Girl. They Offered. Give Them the Feet.
You finally have an hour to yourself—and suddenly the laundry looks urgent. Let’s talk about why feeling good can feel unfamiliar, and how to let one good thing be good.
Ain’t Enough Ocean for All This
Between me and you, tell the truth: that vacation you keep imagining—is it adventure or escape? If you’re longing for a life that asks less and gives more, let’s talk about what would let you exhale on a regular Tuesday.
The Grind Is a Hell of a Drug: Separating Your Worth From Your Output
The grind is a hell of a drug. It numbs you. It fuels you. It keeps you chasing the next hit of proof. But your worth is not your output — and this is how you build pleasure back into a life that's been running on proof alone.
Why Strong Women Forget How to Receive
Learning that receiving is not weakness—it is capacity. If you can carry a whole house and still feel awkward saying "Can you help me?", this one is for you.
The Leap—It’s Time to Actually Move
Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t another plan or another idea. Sometimes the next level simply requires one thing: the courage to leap.
Mastering Visibility—Owning Your Seat at the Table
Growth prepares you for the room. Visibility asks you to claim it. The question isn’t whether the opportunity exists—it’s whether you’re ready to be seen inside it.
Fear of Success—What Happens When You Actually Get What You Want?
Most people think the hardest part is reaching success. But the real challenge is learning how to hold it without shrinking or sabotaging your own growth.
The Company You Keep—Who Belongs at Your Next Level?
Success doesn’t just change your life—it changes your circle. The real question is whether the people around you are aligned with who you’re becoming.
The Work Before the Work: Preparing for Your Next Level
You keep praying for the opportunity. But are you preparing for the version of you that’s supposed to receive it?
Walking in the Impossible—Turning What They Said Couldn’t Happen Into Reality
When the impossible finally happens—when the door opens and the opportunity lands in your lap—success doesn’t always feel like relief. Sometimes it feels like fear. This post reveals why we hesitate when our breakthrough arrives, and how to walk through the door with confidence, courage, and the version of you who knows she belongs.
The Real Reason You Feel “At Capacity” (And Why It’s a Lie)
Many women aren’t actually “at capacity.” They’re just carrying things that were never theirs to hold. Guilt. Expectations. Old stories. The moment you return what doesn’t belong to you,
your capacity expands — instantly.
Why You’re Afraid of Success—And How to Finally Let Yourself Have It
Many high-achieving women are afraid to fully receive the success they’ve worked for. Learn why survival mode, trauma, and guilt make arrival feel unsafe—and how to finally step into abundance, pleasure, and fulfillment without apology.
The Dream Audit—If It Doesn’t Scare You, It’s Too Small
Dream bigger. If your goals feel safe, they’re too small. Learn how to expand your vision, challenge inherited limits, and give yourself permission to want more.
The Limits You Inherited—And Why They’re Not Yours to Keep
A powerful guide to breaking generational limits and rewriting inherited beliefs about success, money, motherhood, and possibility. You weren’t meant to shrink.
What They Told You Was Impossible (And Why They Lied)
A powerful guide for women defying limitations placed on them by family, society, and fear. Learn why the odds don’t define you—and how to dream bigger.
The Impossible Possibilities Series: A 14-Week Journey to Redefining What’s Possible
You were never meant to live inside other people’s limits. This 14-week series shows you how to break them, build bigger, and become the blueprint your lineage has been waiting for.
How to Stop Faking It & Start Facing It: Your Infamous Step-By-Step Guide
Authenticity for women isn’t about perfection—it’s about truth. This Infamous Mothers guide walks you through how to stop performing and start facing what’s real, with clarity, courage, and Becoming.
Speaking of Faking…When It Comes to Our Pleasure, Yeah, No, We Don’t Fake That
Women have been conditioned to fake pleasure—in sex, relationships, work, and even motherhood. This guide explores the infamous way: choosing truth, alignment, and whole satisfaction over performance.
