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2027 Tour Planning
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What part of your life is ready for a different conversation? The Without Apology Tour brings A Pot to P*ss In into rooms where women can read, reflect, connect, and work on what comes next—from money and mothering to relationships, pleasure, identity, and possibility.
The Tour began with the Madison Residency, connecting the book’s stories with real conversations in the community. The Madison Residency ends in April 2027. We’re planning for the Without Apology World Tour to begin in fall 2027. World Tour cities and event dates are not yet confirmed. Explore announced events, start with the book, or ask about bringing the conversation to your community.
Meet the Team
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Afra Smith
FINANCIAL COACH AND EDUCATOR
Afra Smith, Founder and CEO of The Melanin Project, is a celebrated advocate for financial wellness who draws on her journey of overcoming debt and financial challenges to inspire women of the Black and African Diaspora to achieve wealth empowerment and financial freedom.
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Dr. Sagashus Levingston
AUTHOR, PRODUCER, EDUCATOR
Dr. Sagashus T. Levingston, author and creator of the Without Apology Tour, empowers women to boldly reclaim their stories while building health, wealth, and resilience. With a PhD in English Literature, she inspires unapologetic ambition and transformative success through storytelling and community-building.
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Candice Harper
HYPNOTHERAPIST, RELATIONSHIP COACH AND WORKSHOP FACILITATOR
Candice Harper, Certified Hypnotherapist and creator of The GLOAT System™, helps Black and Brown women build loving relationships with good men. As host of Loving Relationships for Women of Color and former TV expert, she offers workshops like “Hack the Dating Apps” to empower women in love and healing.
20+ stops. 1 city. Madison Residency ends April 2027.
WITHOUT APOLOGY TOUR: MADISON RESIDENCY
We’re Not New to This. We’re True to This.
From Book to City Block
The Without Apology Tour kicks off in Madison—20+ stops, rooted in the stories of A Pot to P*ss In. We’re gathering in libraries, salons, bookstores, hubs, community centers, homes, transitional housing and more to talk about motherhood, money, healing, power and reclaiming our stories.
This is more than a tour. It’s a citywide call to action.
Madison is the blueprint for the national tour—a bold test, a homecoming, and a launchpad for something much bigger.
Ready to experience it for yourself?
Citywide and Unapologetic
Each stop draws from a chapter of A Pot to P*ss In—designed for reflection, connection, and real change.
Badger Rock Center
Motherhood, chaos & legacy-buildingCafe Coda
Love, ambition & unapologetic partnershipThe Black Business Hub/Summit Credit Union
Money trauma, wealth & self-worthA Woman’s Touch
Power, labor, & pleasure/fulfillment
The Talk Back (Finale)
Celebration, power & doing the impossible
From Blueprint to Movement: How Chapters Shape the Tour
The Without Apology Tour is built on the book—literally. Each chapter in A Pot to P*ss In gives shape, tone, and direction to a different stop.
During the Madison Residency, every single event represents a chapter. We move through the book in order—one chapter at a time, in one city—building momentum and community as we go.
After Madison, the tour goes national—and global.
Each new city becomes the living embodiment of a single chapter. That means:
📍 One city. One chapter. One unforgettable conversation.
This structure makes each stop unique, while still grounding it in the heart of the story. Whether you’re in Madison or Manila, you’re stepping into a space that’s personal, powerful, and rooted in the text.
Join the Tour: Read it. Reflect on it. Rep it. Walk it.
Whether you're rocking with us in Madison or prepping for when we hit your city,
here’s how to plug in
Sagashus Levingston doesn’t just chase dreams—she fights for them.
A recent PhD graduate, business owner, and single mom of six, her life is a storm of chaos and ambition. Between caring for her father battling dementia, holding her family together, and navigating her tangled love life, she already has her hands full. But her next challenge is her boldest yet: buying a home with no money, no credit, and no room for failure.
In A Pot to P*ss In, Sagashus takes readers on a nine-month journey of heartbreak, resilience, and impossible triumph. With her children’s stability on the line, she scales her business, battles systemic barriers, and faces her own vulnerabilities head-on. This isn’t just about buying a house—it’s about reclaiming her right to dream in a world that tells women like her to settle for less.
Through raw honesty and unrelenting determination, Sagashus reveals how ambition collides with identity, motherhood, and the deeply personal nature of politics. Her story digs into the hidden forces that make dreaming harder—like systemic bias in the banking industry and the generational weight of oppression—and shows how owning her narrative became her ultimate tool for survival.
For every woman who’s ever been told her dreams were too big, this memoir is a battle cry. It’s proof that grit, faith, love, and a refusal to quit can defy the odds and turn the impossible into a legacy.
Purchase and read A Pot to P*ss In—and see what it takes to fight for the life you deserve.
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STEP 1: Get the Book
The book that’s starting a movement.
Read it with intention. Carry it with power. Pass it on with purpose.
Passport Experience
Your exclusive guide through the Madison Residency—designed for women who don’t just show up but show out.
Here’s what you get:
Curated Access to 3 Powerful Events
A guided itinerary with RSVP priority and pre-event prompts to help you reflect and arrive ready.Personal Invitations from Sagashus
Includes audio reflections or journaling prompts to ground your experience.Signed Paperback of A Pot to Piss In
The story behind the tour—yours to keep and annotate.Tour Journal
Custom prompts and a stamp tracker to mark your growth and insights along the way.1 Private Access Moment with Sagashus
An intimate, pre-event session to get grounded before the gathering.1 Behind-the-Scenes Drop
A raw, unfiltered voice memo or text message from Sagashus to keep it real along the ride.Welcome Gift
An affirmation card or small candle—because even a spark can start a revolution.Completion Reward
Collect 5 stamps and earn a surprise gift card to celebrate your journey.Private Facebook Group
Connect with fellow Passport holders. Reflect. Share takeaways. Walk the tour together.
STEP 2: Get the Madison Passport
Explore how the Madison Passport connects with the Tour, and review its current details before choosing your experience.
Apologize for What? Hoodie
Step into unapologetic confidence with our “Apologize for What?” hoodie—cozy, bold, and ready to make a statement. Whether you’re on the go or winding down, this hoodie has you covered in both comfort and conviction. It’s more than just a layer; it’s a fearless reminder that living life on your own terms never needs an apology.
Bring Infamous Mothers into your everyday life.
Carry the conversation home. Make time for a chapter, reflect in your Covet Journal, or open a Books, Bullets & Babies conversation with someone you love.
Become a Partner of the Without Apology Tour
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Become an Ambassador
Become an Ambassador and lead the charge by hosting book clubs, fostering meaningful conversations, and bringing A Pot to Piss In to the women all over.
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Become a Sponsor
Support the Without Apology movement by sponsoring books that empower or funding the tour to bring transformative experiences to communities nationwide.
In the Media
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Sagashus Levingston gets more personal than she's ever been
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7 upcoming releases from Madison-area authors