Retreats for hardcore women who need a soft experience. The getaway you’ve been craving — not to escape your life, but to reset it. Retreat dates dropping soon.

The I.N.F.A.M³.O.U.S. Method℠

About Retreats

Retreats aren’t about running away — they’re about coming back. Back to your body, back to your vision, back to the parts of you that get drowned out by everyone else’s needs.

When we retreat, we do it our way: beauty, decadence, movement, quiet, laughter, fun, rest and work. This is our version of active of rest.

For women who carry the world, this is about softness, flow, creativity and inspiration. Retreats give you the space to dream again, to refill what’s been poured out, and to sketch the vision that’s been waiting for your attention. You leave restored, re-centered, and ready to create — without apology.

Don’t wait for the official drop. Add your name to the retreat list and you’ll be first to know when registration opens. No apologies. No missed chances. Just access

Results You Can See

Women who have participated in our programs and coaching have accomplished in less than a year things they’ve been dreaming about for over a decade. These include…

  • Increasing income by up 2-3x for professionals

  • Increasing income by up 10x for entrepreneurs

  • Our entrepreneurs raising $1+ million in capital for while they retain 100% ownership of their company

  • Purchasing their dream home

  • Buying income properties

  • Improved sleep

  • Reclaiming their time

  • Losing 40+ pounds

  • Completing their master’s degree

  • Leaving their traditional jobs to run their businesses full-time

  • Writing that book they’ve been sitting on for years

  • Earning their PhDs

Start your journey with 1-1 coaching and watch your dreams turn into your reality.

What Is a Retreat?

re·treat /rəˈtrēt/ noun

  1. The act of withdrawing to a quiet or secluded place.

  2. A time away from daily life for reflection, renewal, and rest.

  3. In the I.N.F.A.M³.O.U.S. Method℠: an immersive experience where rest becomes strategy — and women return stronger, sharper, and unapologetically whole.

The Infamous Breakdown

  • Re- = again, back, restoration.

  • -treat = to tend, to care, to heal.

Together → Retreat = the act of tending to yourself again. The intentional return to care.

UPCOMING RETREATS

NAKED

Naked is about being vulnerable with money and body — then practicing strategies to get comfortable with both.

BODY, MONEY + VULNERABILITY

THE MOTHERING PRACTICE

Reclaim who you are, owning your influence, and building a lineage that reflects your vision, not just your circumstances.

IDENTITY, POWER + LEGACY

LOVE + BUSINESS

INTIMACY, AMBITION + SACRIFICE

Navigate the tension between building a legacy and building a legacy— offering strategies to honor both.

Why Retreats?

At least twice a year, I pack a bag, kiss my family goodbye, and check into a hotel right here in my city. Sometimes it’s a week, sometimes it’s a month. Either way, it’s my retreat — my time to pray, meditate, lift heavy things at the gym, and indulge in pleasure. Think: a room full of flowers, food so good it borders on sinful, beauty everywhere I look. And most importantly, uninterrupted space to think, plan, and dream.

Let’s be clear: this isn’t just luxury. It’s about inspiration, creativity, and flow. It’s stepping out of survival into softness. It’s how I detox my energy, reconnect with my spirit, and sketch out the blueprint for the next quarter or the next year. It’s where I breathe again. Reset. Remember who I am when the world’s noise fades.

That’s why I create retreats for other women. Because every mother, every leader, every dreamer deserves this kind of immersive rest — the kind that doesn’t just recharge you, but makes the impossible possible.

I.N.F.A.M³.O.U.S. WHEEL℠

Every woman who comes to retreat is carrying a zone she’s been stuck in. Some are caught in Vision — dreaming but doubting. Others are weighed down in Identity — showing only fragments of themselves while guilt and exhaustion eat away. Many are overextended in Execution — always moving, rarely finishing, spinning in circles. And some are perched at the edge of Breakthrough but frozen by fear, chaos, or lack of clarity.

Wherever you arrive, the I.N.F.A.M³.O.U.S. Method℠ meets you there. Using the 8-pillar framework, we map your personal Wheel, reveal your true starting point, and open a path toward flow, creativity, and renewal.

In retreat, that work is wrapped in softness and beauty: flowers, food that delights, movement that restores, and quiet that heals. You don’t just step away from the grind — you return to yourself. And by the time you leave, you won’t just be rested. You’ll be re-centered, inspired, and carrying the clarity to live — and lead — without apology.

Retreats: Hard-Core Women + Soft Experiences

Retreats are immersions for when life feels too loud — intentional withdrawals into softness, beauty, and clarity so you can hear yourself, realign, and recharge again.

They’re not vacations. They’re not escapes. They’re spaces designed for women carrying more than most people could imagine — mothers raising families, building businesses, navigating loss, and still daring to create.

Each retreat offers an environment that:

  • Restores what the grind has drained.

  • Opens flow, creativity, and inspiration.

  • Grounds you in rhythms that make the impossible feel possible again.

We’ve listened to hundreds of women name the exhaustion, the overwhelm, the endless giving. Retreats don’t erase those realities. They give you space to breathe, reset, and return sharper.

By the time you leave, you won’t just feel rested — you’ll have a renewed vision alive in you, a calmer mind and body and a game plan for what’s next.

Transformation Pathways

The FRESHEST

We don’t do canned, third-party materials. Everything we offer is fresh, original, and unapologetic — from our books, blog posts, podcast, and game to our journals and workbooks. And when it comes to you? We custom-build the experience.
Books, Bullets and Babies Podcast

Featured In

We cherish not only the big achievements but also the small, weekly shifts that deeply resonate with the women we coach. These moments are pivotal; they reassure our clients that they're on track to reach their goals. More importantly, they encourage living in the present, fostering trust in themselves and their futures.  Here are some of the weekly testimonials provided by the women we coach and the benefits they gain from our sessions:

Skill

“She facilitated the hell out of that session.”

Processes

“I took steps forward in my processes around my goals and felt seen and heard.”

Accountability

“I realize that up until now, I've been neglecting the work to be successful.”

Sisterhood

"Me and the women in my cohort are friends for life."

Dr. Sagashus Levingston, A Pot to P*ss In

“We’re in the middle of one of our virtual weekend retreats, a group of women from around the country gathered online. Their faces fill the screen—a patchwork of worlds that collide and intersect in this shared space. Each woman is here with a purpose, bringing her whole self into the room, expecting something big, something transformative.”

Why Dr. Sagashus?

I don’t retreat for optics. I retreat for softness. For rest. For clarity, flow, creativity, inspiration. I retreat for strategy, for pleasure, for power.

At least twice a year, I check into a hotel in my own city for a week or more. I pray. I journal. I lift heavy. I surround myself with flowers, beauty, and food so decadent it feels like sin. And in that space, I map out quarters, books, businesses, family meetings, and legacies.

Retreating is how I’ve written books while raising six children. It’s how I’ve scaled businesses in the middle of chaos. It’s how I’ve reclaimed my body, my time, and my joy.

So when I guide retreats, I’m not leading from theory. I’m leading from lived practice. From receipts. From a blueprint that has saved my life and expanded my possibilities again and again.

That’s why women trust me to hold this space. Because I don’t just offer retreats. I embody them.

 FAQs

  • Our retreats are designed for women who carry a lot — mothers, entrepreneurs, leaders, and visionaries who are tired of pouring into everyone else while running on empty themselves. These spaces are for women who are ready to rest, recover, and reimagine what’s possible — without apology.

  • This isn’t just a getaway with pretty views and yoga mats. Our retreats are immersive experiences grounded in story, sisterhood, and strategy. We use the I.N.F.A.M³.O.U.S. Method℠ to help you reflect, release, and reset. You’ll leave not only renewed, but with tools and sisterhood that will sustain you beyond our weekend together.

  • What happens at a retreat?

    Retreats are about active rest — intentionally stepping away from the grind to recharge your body, mind, and spirit. Depending on the retreat, your experience may include:

    • Spa treatments like massages, facials, or mani/pedis

    • Nourishing gourmet meals prepared with care

    • Outdoor adventures that let you breathe, move, and explore

    • Cooking classes that mix joy with culture and connection

    • Coaching sessions to help you reflect, reset, and reimagine

    • Workshops grounded in A Pot to Piss In and the Infamous Mothers method

    • Yoga and body practices to restore balance

    • Strategy & stratagem sessions so you leave with tools you can put into action immediately

    And always: sisterhood, storytelling, and soul work.

    Retreats are designed so you don’t just rest — you return home renewed, resourced, and ready.

  • No one is ever forced to share. But if you feel led to, this is a space where your story will be held with care. Whether you speak up or soak it all in quietly, you’ll still leave with clarity, connection, and community.

  • Our retreats are held at hotels, resorts, and online. Whether it’s a luxury space designed for rest, a resort setting that lets you exhale, or a virtual circle you can join from your home, the environment always matches the intention: healing, reflection, and renewal.

  • Bring yourself as you are. We’ll provide the journals, prompts, and materials. Pack comfortable clothes, an open heart, and the willingness to rest and receive.

  • Retreat prices vary depending on length, location, and what’s included. At times, we offer tiered options — from general admission to VIP experiences — along with occasional scholarships and “sponsor-a-sister” opportunities. Access matters, and we structure pricing with that in mind.

  • No pressure, just invitation. Each retreat includes a soft bridge to the larger Infamous Mothers ecosystem — from the Covet Program to masterclasses and local gatherings. You decide what’s next.

Don’t Wait!

Ready for your reset? Claim your spot before the doors even open.

“Rest is not a pause from the work—it is part of the work. It is a reminder that pushing forward doesn’t mean pushing through to the point of breaking. It is about learning to let softness be the strategy, not just the sanctuary.”

— Dr. Sagashus Levingston, A Pot to P*ss In