About The Weekly Wench
Welcome to The Weekly Wench—this isn’t just a blog, it’s a ministry, a lifestyle, a love letter to every woman who’s done shrinking.
This space exists for the ones who were told to stay quiet, play small, or settle—and yet still chose to rise. I created it for the women who may not be ready to buy a ticket to the tour, afford a session, or even grab the book—but who still deserve access to the kind of wisdom that heals, liberates, and builds legacy.
Every post is written like a sermon: truth-telling, soul-stirring, strategy-laced. This is the real work—the kind that feeds, not teases. Here you’ll find stories, reflections, and hard-won strategems on reclaiming your voice, breaking generational patterns, preparing for your next level, and building a life that feels like freedom.
This is for my mother, my grandmother, and every woman who came before me with fire in her bones but nowhere to put it. It’s for the ones who exist alongside me, navigating and negotiating what it means to leverage the lives we have to get the lives we want. And it’s for the ones coming after me, so they can have the language, tools, and evidence that it’s possible.
This is more than a blog—it’s culture, it’s strategems, it’s a place to feel seen, and it’s where we shift our mindsets. And we’re not shrinking anymore.
Come get this word.
Forged or Forged? Sis, Let’s Talk About the Fake Us
Many of us are carrying two versions of ourselves—one refined by fire and one rewritten without our consent. This post unpacks how to spot the difference and burn away the false version so you can live unapologetically.
Manifesting in Four Dimensions: The Power of Seeing, Writing, Speaking, and Doing
Most people think manifestation is about dreaming and waiting. But real manifestation happens in four dimensions—you must see it, write it, speak it, and do it before your dreams become reality. This post breaks down why each stage is essential and how to align faith, action, and trust to bring your vision to life.
Redefining Success: Why It Means Freedom for Me
Success isn’t about degrees, job titles, or wealth—it’s about freedom. If you’re chasing society’s version of success, you might be building a prison of accomplishments. Here’s how to redefine success on your own terms—without apology.
The Price of Purpose: When the Calling Won’t Let You Rest
Carrying a big purpose comes with big pressure. The world expects extraordinary people to also be perfect—but what happens when the weight of the world feels unbearable? This post explores the contradictions, expectations, and coping mechanisms of high achievers who are both superhuman and deeply human.
The Manufactured Fear of Women: How a Narrative of Distrust Keeps Us Divided
For too long, we’ve been told that women don’t support each other—that we compete, tear each other down, and can’t be trusted. But that narrative was never meant to serve us; it was designed to divide us. It’s time to unlearn the myths, reclaim our sisterhood, and step into the power we’ve always had—together.
Why Ambitious Women Struggle to Celebrate Themselves (And Why That Needs to Change)
Why do ambitious women struggle to celebrate themselves? We hit a goal and immediately move on to the next one. We downplay wins, move the goalpost, and convince ourselves that stopping to celebrate means losing momentum. But what if celebration isn’t a distraction from success—what if it’s fuel for what’s next? Let’s talk about why recognizing your progress is a radical act of self-ownership.
Building Unshakable Confidence: A How-To Guide, Not Just the Hype
Tired of people telling you to “just be confident” without telling you how? This post gives you the exact steps to build unshakable confidence—no fluff, no vague advice. Learn how to rewrite your narrative, align your actions, and step into your power.
Soft and Hard: The Power of Holding Both
You were never meant to be just one thing. True power is knowing when to stand firm and when to soften. When to fight and when to trust. This post explores the strength in holding both—because real power isn’t choosing, it’s mastering both.
This Resilience “Ish” is for the Birds…But Bounce Back Anyway
The truth is, society loves to romanticize resilience. They’ll applaud you for being strong, for picking up the pieces, and for figuring it out when the plan goes left. What they don’t see are the teeth-gritted nights and the tears you refuse to let fall because you don’t have time to break. You’ve been stretched by life in ways that feel unfair, exhausting, and unrelenting. But every time, you’ve snapped back into the fight.
Mastering Your Life (Part 3): The Power of Calling Bullsh*t
What if you defied the voices convincing you that you must choose between nurturing your children and providing for them? What if you questioned the negative thoughts making you feel guilty about placing yourself at the forefront of your family's agenda instead of relegating yourself to a lifetime of tending to others?
What if you refused to accept that your ambitions must perish for others to thrive?
